A friend writes to me today:
You find yourself in a dilemma where you are “damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.” You cannot solve such dilemmas by choosing a side because both paths lead to suffering. The only way out is to transform your perspective to a place where the dilemma no longer exists. This is possible–with time, patience and …some…good help.
Einstein said it like this: “We cannot solve our problems on the same level that we created them.”